I am well aware that anger is a part of human nature. Every human person exhibits anger over the simplest of things such as the loss of a certain personal belonging or when engaged in a competition, one person exhibits great displeasure when losing consecutively.
However, what I do not like is the fact that humans tend to get angry out of character. These are the kind of people who would simply shout at you just to send the message across. Unfortunately, such an act of negative demeanor would scar the emotional aspect of the one who receives the bitter end of the stick. This holds true for children and it's because of how parents are given the duty to discipline their kids, regardless of how they will actually do it. I, myself, find it a difficulty whenever someone would suddenly shout in front of me. My fundamental point is that there is always an easier or better way to say things without harming the emotions of the other person. Unfortunately, that is not a principle that everyone holds. My parents, for one, are exactly like that. I would call it trigger happy temper. They would go ballistic whenever things are going haywire and what makes things worse is that my siblings are also affected. Principle-wise, i vow to never shout in front of a woman or a child, though the latter part I have to admit is very difficult to do given their potential inattentive nature. Though I am proud that I've never shouted to a woman around my age simply because I simply cannot. Let them shout to me if they would want to, but I would just take it all and just move on. Really, my basic question is, "what is the point of shouting at another person?" Is there a positive outcome when someone shouts at you? The answer is definitely a no! There is absolutely no beneficial result when a conversation or dialogue begins or ends with words of anger. Anger, for me, is man's worst enemy. It turns man into an animal that lacks the rational component in dealing with others appropriately. Somehow, someday, I hope to exhibit such a character to people and show them the value of eliminating anger in their character.
I dare you, reader to do this: In one week, do not be angry at anything. Do not complain, do not rant, do not think of ill feelings towards others. I tell you, it will be a peaceful and stress-less week.
Signing out.
Saturday, June 27, 2009
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